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When I created this blog, it was for the sheer purpose that maybe, one person would read it and be able to come to terms with their break-up or learn what perhaps the other party is thinking. I never expected the outpouring of emails and posts that I have received from fellow bloggers. I am thrilled that my own experiences could help any one of you. I am sorry if I have not answered any questions or left people out there wondering; that was not my intention. The past year was a roller coaster of change and emotions for me and quite frankly I never checked my blog. I will answer some questions now in the hope that if any of you read this again.

It has been over a year and a half since I have talked to C. His mother still calls me and updates me on how he and her entire family is doing. I still think about him often with both warm and hurt feelings. I hear that he is dating again which honestly, thrills me. I want nothing but the best for him in this world. We were both so much younger and I cannot hold him to how he acted before. I have been privileged to date some wonderful men and he is amongst them. I know that we will never be friends again and I will most likely never see him again, but he remains in my thoughts and I believe that I will never stop thinking about him. He knows that if he ever wants me to be a part of his life again, that I am here as a friend, always. The same situation applies to J. He is one of the best men I have ever met and we broke-up on amicable terms. I still consider him one of my closest friends and attended his weddings four months ago.

I am still dating and very happy with where I am in my life. I recently quit medical school after realizing how miserable it made me. I was fortunate enough to secure a job in this frustrating economic time and I am completely self-sufficient. I am inspired by the kind words you have left me and touched that I could help anyone with my experience. Please do not hesitate to contact me with any questions, criticisms or advice. I welcome it all and promise you that when another crisis hits me, I will be unabashedly sharing my perspective and thoughts right here.